{"id":3159,"date":"2016-06-08T20:04:28","date_gmt":"2016-06-08T20:04:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.silkgarters.co.uk\/?p=3159"},"modified":"2023-10-09T19:52:38","modified_gmt":"2023-10-09T19:52:38","slug":"valentines-day-traditions-engagements-weddings-and-romance","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.silkgarters.co.uk\/valentines-day-traditions-engagements-weddings-and-romance\/","title":{"rendered":"Valentines Day Traditions, Engagements, Weddings and Romance"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Valentines day is THE time of year for romance and is the most popular time of year for marriage proposals\u2026<\/p>\n

It\u2019s also a popular date for a wedding with February 14th having 70% more weddings than the surrounding dates<\/p>\n

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Endless Love Wedding Garter<\/em><\/p>\n

Traditionally men do the proposing, but in the UK, in an exception to the tradition, a girl can propose to her other half on a leap year. In 1936 \u2018Golden Valentine Telegrams\u2019 were issued by the Post Office and thousands were delivered from girls proposing to their men\u2026I\u2019ve read that in Ireland this continues to \u2018If she proposes in a leap year, he has to accept\u2019!<\/p>\n

In 1288 Scottish parlament went a step further stating for a leap year, a maiden lady, of high or low estate, is at liberty to ask a man she liked, to take her as his wedded wife. If he refuses he must give her the sum of \u2018ane pundis\u2019 (one pound?) or less depending on his estate, for a silk dress\u2026 Unless he can prove he is already betrothed.<\/p>\n

\"Champagne<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n

Timeless Champagne Flowers Wedding Garter<\/em><\/p>\n

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On Valentines day 1975, 120 British paratroopers returning from serving in Northern Ireland, took part in a \u2018lovers leap\u2019 when they jumped into the arms of wives and girlfriends\u202616 at a time, they parachuted in to a field in Aldershot Surrey. Identifying their sweethearts must have been difficult and the emergency services were on standby\u2026The British army called it a \u2018normal training operation\u2019 \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n

\"REME<\/a>REME Military Wedding Garter
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In the Victoria and Albert museum, there is a Valentine from 1820\u2026It\u2019s a cheque, printed with scrolls of love from the \u2018Lovers banking Company\u2019. It\u2019s signed by cupid and reads \u2018I promise to pay on demand the entire LOVE of the supplicant who sends this\u2019 \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n

\"Endless <\/a>Endless Love Wedding Garter Personalised inside<\/em>
\nMrs Samuel Pepes, (wife of the famous english writer Samuel Pepes who gave us so much information about London life in the 1600\u2019s) covered her eyes for the whole of the morning on Valentines day one year, when they had tradesmen in guilding the chimneypiece.<\/p>\n

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Bespoke Skulls and Roses Wedding Garter<\/em><\/p>\n

A Frenchman visiting England in 1700 wrote that maids and bachelors would take part in a very ancient custom on Valentines day eve, writing their names on tickets and drawing lots for their valentine.<\/p>\n

The tradition was taken to America by English settlers but was frowned upon by the Puritans of New England, who banned public expressions of affection ;-(<\/p>\n

It was noted Captain James Kemble, spent 2 hours in the stocks for \u2018unseemly behaviour\u2019 after returning from a 3 year voyage at sea, on February 14th 1764 and giving his wife a huge valentine kiss.<\/p>\n

\"Butterfly<\/a><\/p>\n

Butterfly Kisses Wedding Garter<\/em><\/p>\n

A dozen red roses…It\u2019s a custom said to have started in France by King Louis XVI when he gave his wife Marie Antionette red roses for valentines day. (We have her garters pictured and described in another post)<\/p>\n

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Wild Flowers Heirloom Wedding Garter, Embroidered with pearls, crystals and silver beads
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Valentives day cards were at first home made and were usually sent anonymously, to a secret love. Later stationers would supply ready made cards decorated with tinsel, lace and flowers.<\/p>\n

The demand for cards to be delivered by the postal service on Valentines day, lead to postmen claiming a special meal allowance to sustain them during the extra long hours.<\/p>\n

What will you be doing this valentines day?<\/p>\n<\/div>\n